Submissives On-Line

Me giving the internet the middle finger

Note: Before you read any further; this post is not about finding a submissive on-line. This post is about a submissive's behavior while on-line. The behavior varies greatly; depending on the dynamics of the submissive's relationship and their personal behavior in daily life.

Keeping up with my On-Line BDSM theme; I figured that I should talk about submissives behavior while on-line.

Outside of their BDSM relationship, which can include being on-line, most submissives don't act very submissive. A lot of on-line groups I know of are run by submissives. The most active members of these groups are also submissives. I also know of a lot of submissive bloggers. You may not even be able to tell that they are submissive unless they tell you.

There tons of complex answers as to why submissives may not act submissive on-line. That would require a long in-depth and boring analysis; that not many people would want to read. I figure that for the my style of writing and this blog; it would be best to give the short answer to this so-called phenomenon.

The reason for submissives not acting very submissive on-line is because they are only submissive towards their Dom. They still treat others with respect and are accountable for their own actions. They know that they aren't doormats for everybody to use; so they act more dominate than normal. They aren't afraid to speak up and ask questions. They give advice to others and share useful information. If they see another submissive in a troubling situation, they do their best to help.

Just because there is a submissive on-line that isn't acting very submissive; it doesn't mean that that submissive isn't any less submissive. The submissive can be the most submissive person in real life. You are just only seeing the on-line side of the submissive; not how they normally act. A lot of people act differently on-line than they do in real life; including people that are in the BDSM lifestyle.