BDSM is More Than Me Tarzan, You Jane

Johnny Weissmuller and Maureen O’Sullivan in Tarzan and His Mate (1934).

Nothing irritates me more than people thinking that all men should be Doms and all women should be subs no matter what.

This lifestyle is much more complex than me Tarzan, you Jane.

Women can be Dommes, men can be submissive. People can be switches and want to do both. Not to mention all the many different other things people can be...

Ladies if your man doesnt want to dom you, dont force him. Men if your lady isnt submissive, tough titty.

Either live with the fact that your partner isnt interested in this lifestyle or else find a new partner that is. Not everybody is a lifestyler.

In this lifestyle you cant force people to do something they don't want to unless you want to end up damaging your relationship.

Yes I know that you may love your significant other; but if you are truly unhappy with them not fulling your needs than you will have to look else where to get them filled. Either by getting paid sessions with a professional or by finding a new partner.

밀당

I did a search to see if the ingoring your girlfriend who you love and cherish was a Korean thing or if this guy is just messing with me.

I found out its something called push and pull http://cyjh.hubpages.com/hub/How-to-Date-a-Korean ...

Thanks but I will pass on being treated coldly. If I was able to be with my ex then I would have been with him. You cant push me into the water when Im in the middle of a huge parking lot...

I have read that Korean guys can be cold and all but damn. I think I will pass on the whole omg Im so happy to be dating a Korean guy, they are the best...

All I have to say is that Im glad it happened now instead of when I was with him and had no way to get back home

Must have been with an onion...

100% Me...

Start of a New Chapter...

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I have decided that even though I'm currently unowned and I'm a free slave that I will continue to write in this journal because there is a lot of insight into myself written here.

A person's life doesn't start over just because a person they cared about left. They continue on and add that to their life experience.

I also like to write; even if its just for myself.

I don't necessary hate my ex because without him I would have never wanted to learn about Korea.

I hope one day I can afford to take the TOESL test and teach English in Korea or Japan

Current mood...

Never thought a kpop song would ever deciribe how I feel but this is 100% me right now

Idk...

I do love my Master but I hate the way he constantly ignores me. Master was wonderful at first because he would message me almost everyday but now he only seems to message me when he wants me to do his English work.

I have made a promise that I wouldnt leave my Master but Im starting to regret making that promise...

All it is doing is making me back into an emotionless cold heated bitch...

I remember my Master saying he was thankful to me but it doesnt show. It almost felt like it was saying thank you to a customer for buying something...

I just feel so alone and unloved...

I dont know what I want to do yet but I know what must be done...

People dont change unless they want to